What do you think of when you think of home? I think of a quiet spot in front of an old grandfather clock where the floorboards had warped and pushed up a bit, a spot in our small foyer laid with rainbows cast by the beveled mirror in the neighboring (off-limits) living room.
So your definition probably differs from mine. But that’s just the point, right? How can you define home? Home is an old word.
Home shows up in early Old English writings, used in much the same way as we use it now, to mean ‘a place where a person or animal dwells’. Other Germanic languages have similar words – Old Icelandic has heimr, which denotes a mythical dwelling and was used as a word for ‘earth, world, universe’. Going back even further, home shares an Indo-European root with the Old Irish cóim and Welsh cu, both of which mean ‘beloved, dear’. Our homes are dear to us. And they are the world we live in, our universe, as it were.
We see the importance of home in early English place names. The common suffix –ham was often paired with a family name to denote ‘home of this important family’. Thus we have Billingham as ‘home of the Billings’. Or Fincham as ‘home of the finches’ – remember, I said ‘place where person or animal dwells’. We have also Shipdham (yes, ‘home of sheep’) in Norfolk, England.
As an aside inspired by my ex-Army, Arabic-teaching husband, in Arabic, the word for ‘home’ is bayt, and it means ‘movable tent made out of goat hair’, but more importantly (and less stereotypically), bayt is also the term for a verse in poetry. In Arabic, poetry is the home and home is in poetry.
Ah, so now we see the home part . . . I’m not touching the word bit.